Weight gain?

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My fiancé likes thick women. I’m already considered “obese” but he wants me to gain more weight to make me thicker. I don’t like how I look I feel like a beached whale. I want everyone to be happy because that’s how I am, character flaw. I just don’t know what to do

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It's unhealthy.
If you feel good about yourself then dont change. Dont try to keep him by gaining more weight.
If my husband told me he likes crackheads with no teeth, I'm not gonna go do crack and pull some teeth out just to keep him or satisfy his wishes.
I love myself first.

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Your fiance likes thick women... but if he is your fiance... im sure he would choose a happy healthy version of you over physical likings. Thats what makes him Fiance status🌹

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there's an episode of my 600 lb Life and a woman was with a guy that liked thick women. she was getting unhealthy and decided to lose weight,  he got pissed off. do not do it to please him, it's your body! you have to live with it, and that's the key word... live!!

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My boyfriend likes thick women too, but he is constantly encouraging me to lose weight if that is my choice. He cares more about my personal health over that. Plus my family is naturally big boned, so even if I did lose weight he would still have something to be satisfied about. You should do what makes you happy, not him. In my opinion it was wrong of him to say that to because i know that if it were me I would be just as conflicted. But do what makes you happy because it’s your body and at the end of the day you have to live with it.

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He clearly likes fat women not thick women. This is no disrespect to you but there is a huge difference! And if yourealready considered obese and he wants you bigger? He has a obsession for “fat women” like I said.
Do not put your self at risk for him.

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My husband loves thicker girls but he loves me more. I have a ton of health issues. I am losing weight to get my health back. I'm gaining muscle and losing weight. He tells me he loves my body every day. I joke and tell him he's going to leave me when I get too skinny. He always tells me he married everything the body, the personality, the crazy he's not going anywhere. You two need to discuss if he wants the whole you or if his needs come first.

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That’s unhealthy and it’s a form of control. If you’re unhappy, lose weight and maybe even more weight by dumping your fiancé

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They are guys who fetishize morbidly obese women. Obese is in no way “thick” and getting bigger is definitely the opposite way of trying to be thick. It’s not healthy to be obese so why get bigger esp for a fetish always do things for yourself. Just like women lose weight or gain weight for themselves and nobody else. Also think about the future and the restrictions you’ll have and kids if u want them or have them etc etc

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when me and my husband got together I weigh 145 pounds at 5 foot 7 pretty much solid muscle since we've been together I have ballooned up to a hundred and ninety-five lb he loves it he said I was far too skinny and bony before and truth be told I actually now have boobs I pretty much had to wear a training bra and now I fill out a size a push-up bra it doesn't sound like much of an accomplishment but for me it's a pretty big deal the only thing I really don't care for it this point is I'm getting a gut other than that I'm pretty content with my larger size and so is he

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No. It’s completely unhealthy. I’m also obese. In no way would I gain more weight just to please my husband. That’s ridiculous. I already have health issues, I don’t want more & am working towards being healthier. This is ridiculous. You can’t also always do what makes you happy. I’d love a deep dish pizza right now but I can control myself and eat something healthier instead. I have strong chance of diabetes no food is worth getting any disease! In the end it’s your decision, but I think you should be healthy for yourself. And no that’s not starving!

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