Basic “Old relationship” symptoms or is he growing distant

Okay overall my relationships is really good compared to everything else I’ve experienced or seen my friends go through... however I just need to list the things he used to do vs now And hear some opinions. Idk if we’re out of the honeymoon phase or if he’s being distant. When we’re alone together the honeymoon feel is still very much alive. It’s when other things pop up mainly with people or events in his life that make me feel like he’s not completely invested all the time (I understand not being a #1 priority 24/7, but I think your SO should always be in your top 3. Your top 5 at the most.)

First started dating:

Tell me “I love you” every night before going to bed

Put effort into making plans with me, never backed out or had other plans the same time, basically organized when it comes to me

Wanted to spend a lot of his time with me // as much as possible

Didn’t put up with anyone that made me jealous or uncomfortable // didn’t consider sticking around them

Talked about the future often and reassured me he sees me in it

I felt prioritized

Good things he still does:

Makes me feel safe, comfortable around him

Be myself, be open as possible for me

Makes me feel overall great (but usually only when we’re alone)

Great conversation

Great physical chemistry

Bright future ahead of him

New things he does that hurt my feelings // frustrate me // make me wonder if he’s growing distant:

Occasionally goes to sleep without saying I love you

Gets cranky easier

Double books himself ... a lot when we have plans (wasn’t in town during our anniversary, didn’t get my birthday off, now potentially missing another big event this weekend.)

Wants to see his friends more often // go out // crash at their houses (once girls I didn’t know were there but my friend clarified nothing happen - still made me uncomfortable that i didn’t hear about the other girls from him bc he already knew I was unhappy)

Still sees // talks to a girl he used to like even though it makes me uncomfortable

Makes me unsure or he seems unclear about what he sees or wants for our future

Now I don’t always feel prioritized or like I’m one of his first few thoughts when he has to make his work schedule and it’s my bday etc.