My man hasn’t made me organs after 3 yrs

Been with my man for 3 years now and still hasn’t made me cum.

I don’t have a climax during sex. It’s feels good but no build up. I’ve been close when he is licking me out. There is a build up but again still nothing.

Am I normal?

Its takes me 10-15 mins whilst watching porn. I’m starting to think I’m becoming reliant on porn. Is that a thing?

I find my man attractive but I don’t know why I haven’t had an orgasm.

Help, tips and trick please!!