Not a reall mom?

Lately it has been going around from some Very unsupportive women that if you do not give birth Vaginally that you are not a true mother.

First of all let me say this, my oldest daughter is adopted and my youngest is biological. I am no less my oldest daughters mother than I am my youngest. I did not give birth to my oldest and I did not give birth vaginally to my youngest. Both are my daughters. I love them both and would lay down my own life so that they may live. My husband and I tried for 3 years to have children and nothing came about it. We decided to adopt. One year later I got pregnant and misscarried. I went to the dr as a follow up two months later and found out I was pregnant again. Nine long months I felt her move, grow, kick. I fed her, housed her and took care her. I was here first bedroom. I built a bond with her that noone will be able to break. Jan my beautiful baby girl graced the world with her presence. I couldn't have been more happy. But I did not give birth to her vaginally. As the Dr tried so hard to do so it just wasnt happening. You see she got stuck in the birth canal and the Dr had no choice but to do an emergency C-section. now she is 1 years old and I couldnt love her more. She loves me and I give my daughters my everything. So you see ladies sometimes you have no choice but to find another alternative to birth due to health problems. So it doesnt matter if you have a c-section or natural birth or weather you have an epidural or not, you are still that child's mother. My oldest calls me mom. She sees no difference and she knows she is adopted. So ladies please stop bashing others. You do not know what they had to go through to give birth to that beautiful child that you are claiming not theirs by saying they are not a real mother.