My so and I have been trying to conceive for a lil over two years with a chemical mc 4 months ago. We have been together for over 13 years on and off again. He has children from other relationships. I try and not resent him. It’s along story about that. Anyway what I’m trying to say is how do you ladies stay positive? Did you ever want to leave bc it’s not happening right away. I love my bf but I’m stuck to what to do. He’s 38 almost 39 and next month I’ll be 34.