pregnant with#3 had a loss a year ago + and a c section will be 5 1/2 year s ago by the time this one is ready to come. now we only have one l&d; hospital in town and I am hoping and praying for a vbac as the section was top of my terrible things list.

any tips to help make sure I get what I want!?!? I am planning on bringing a doula to help and my Dr seems ok with the plan but then you can see him kind of roll his eyes like, I hope she's not going to be a problem.... plus somewhat overweight, will be 41, but otherwise not really high risk.