My boyfriend doesn’t have a job and not much money and I’m always the one who buys us stuff and buys us food and I love him a lot and valentines days is in two days and I would love to take us out to red lobster but idk if should. And it would be diffrent if he was the same age as me but he’s 26 and I’m 20 and. I just feel like he should be able to do things for me like that I’m not a materialistic person but every once in a while I’d like to be spoiled who doesn’t but. I literally get him gifts and things like that and I honestly think Valentine’s Day will probably be a bust if I don’t do anything for us he definitely won’t he still lives with his mother and she won’t give him his money that he asked her to hold she spent and won’t even pay him back I’d give him any he can’t even go to the casino with me and that makes me upset ... I just feel like I shouldn’t have to tell him what we should do for Valentine’s Day but. I have to. And it’s just so ugh!

So DO I TAKE US TO RED LOBSTER?

OR

Do I TAKE US SOMEWHERE SMALLER??? HELPPPP