Who all has done this? This is my third pregnancy and last one. I figured it would be fun to wait til the birth to know what im having i have a boy and a girl so im not going either way. How do i get over being anxious about it? Its exciting though all at the same time. My fiancee is on board with it as well (father of my other two children as well) but how do i do this lol i know just don't ask and they won't tell you if you don't want to know but over myself and being excited to try to find out what the gender is earlier on than the birth.