HSG results 😢😭😭 UPDATE!!

So yesterday I had my HSG X ray, not the best way to spend Valentine's day I will tell you! I was feeling really nervous about the whole thing before I got there and while I was waiting. I was talked through everything and the nurses were lovely, they put my mind at ease a little with the explanation I was given.

I was told to expect period cramp type pains when the ink was injected. It was pretty uncomfortable when the balloon was inflated but very manageable as promised, then the ink was injected and the pain I felt was unbearable. At this point I was terrified of receiving any answers as I knew it should not have hurt so much.

One of the nurses went to the waiting room to bring my partner in for the results. They showed us the pictures and explained what they meant. The answer I received broke my heart, both of my tubes are blocked. I am waiting for more of an explanation from the fertility consultant as to the reason why and to see if I'm eligible for a laparoscopy. I'm really hoping that I am as the only other option is

IVF

.

I have researched so many things since hearing this that my mind has gone to jelly. I did come across some herbal remedy, this can only work in certain cases so I'm not sure it applies to me but has anyone tried it and had it work for them? I feel like I'm running out of options to naturally convince a child and I could really do with some advice. I know

IVF

is a miracle but its just not the same and I want that to be the very last thing to try.

Sorry for the length of this but people around me don't really understand so I don't have a lot of people to talk to about this, my mother passed away almost 3 years ago too so I don't even have her to turn to.

Update***

So I have finally had my follow up appointment with the fertility clinic. I am going in for the laparoscopy! My blockages are very near to my womb so I can have the operation and hopefully, hopefully 🤞🤞🤞 they can unblock them and I will be able to conceive naturally 😁 They now have me on the waiting list for the operation! I've never been so happy and scared all at the same time.

Has any of you other ladies got any updates on your journey yet?