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I have been TTC for 3 years now, and I just saw a post that this chick was bragging that she got pregnant only after one month and one try. Give me a break! I get happy when other people get pregnant, don’t get me wrong. I just don’t think it’s fair to throw it in women’s faces on this app who are struggling.

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yeah, does anyone know how to make it so you can't see announcements on Glow??? sometimes it's encouraging. other times I hate pregnant people and I want to throw my phone over a cliff

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No I’m the same way. Even though I’m happy when others get pregnant it still hurts so bad because it’s never me. I try not to join the general TTC groups and stick with TTC with infertility, long term TTC basically any TTC group where I’m among women who also understand the longer fertility struggles

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At least you can be happy for other people. We have been trying over three years also. And quite frankly I’m not happy for people anymore

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it only gets worse the longer you're ttc too. I'm going on 11 years myself and I cringe at announcements. I want to be happy but I just can't. not just with my struggles but I have a sister on her 6th child. I've raised almost all of them and currently have her 2 year old full time. her 9 month old passed away in October and in Feb told me she was pregnant. while I'm raising her baby. It's overwhelming.

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My friend who got pregnant the first month said the following: "were not really ready for this.""We both freaked out like I guess we wanted to get pregnant but I figured it would take us a few months not right away. I would have put it off a while if I knew this." "it was like super easy to get pregnant" "I'm like so fertile it's annoying." and also my favorite "we got pregnant so fast. I dont know why it's not happening for you after years. Have you tried *fill in the blank*" UGH

I do understand that a baby is a big change and we would be a little nervous if we got pregnant the first month too, but it's like.....please stop talking about how awful it is to be pregnant and how it happened to fast when I'm over here like:

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Hugs **

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Yea. I agree with you girl. Baby dust to both of us!

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