Is my hubby gay? I went though his phone last night and found months worth of gay porn videos. Sometimes when we have sex he asks if I can thrust him from behind which I thought was strange but I let it go.

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Am I gay if I watch porn with two girls? No. Considering you can stimulate the prostrate through the asshole, I don’t see it as that big of a deal. Why don’t you ask him instead of strangers who don’t even know him

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Maybe he is Bi? Or just curious...talk to him. Don’t just leave him.

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It could just be a kink. Women watch lesbian porn, doesn't mean they're lesbian.

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I guess the porn thing could be normal considering lots of girls watch girl porn BUT putting that together with him wanting you to thrust him from behind..... i’d be a bit worried!

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Is it Just gay porn? Or are there other types also?
If it’s just gay porn I do see this as a warning sign. It definitely can just be a kink but months of gay porn is a bit more than that. I would definitely bring it up.
It very well may be a kink in your case but I have two separate friends who found exclusively gay porn on their partners computers and one found out her husband was having random sex with men on Craigslist and one was having random sex with men at airports as he traveled.
I am Not saying these are things you should worry about but I would definitely talk to him/find out more. If his sexuality is fluid it’s not a big deal, but I would definitely need to find out one way or the other.

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He likes what he likes, if it bothers you, you should ask him about it? Even if it's just a kink, communication keeps from misunderstandings

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He could be bi, it could be a kink. You should talk to him about it and not jump to conclusions. It’s not ok to judge people, and if you love him and are committed to your relationship than you should try to be open in the conversation and see what he is feeling.

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I’m a straight female and majority of the time I watch lesbian porn. If it’s concerning to you, ask him?

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perhaps he is into butt play. May be he's bi. I mean according to this app women like watching lesbian porn even if they are straight. But if a guy watches gay porn even once his sexuality is questioned. My bf has wanked to traps (men and look alot like women) I don't mind it. I enjoy it myself actually. and I got my bf into ass play and he'll ask me to eat his ass sometimes.

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Just ask him! He could be bi, or pan, or something along those lines. Some men like to be "pegged". Definitely worth a discussion.

Is my hubby gay? I went though his phone last night and found months worth of gay porn videos. Sometimes when we have sex he asks if I can thrust him from behind which I thought was strange but I let it go.

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