Long post just need advice, pointers etc .

Had a stillborn nov 2016 20 weeks pregnant due to ic got pregnant again in May lost that baby July 31st due to chromosomal abnormalities. August came and I had blood work panel done everything was great I don’t have pcos nothing also my body parts were checked with ultrasound all looked good. I had my first cycle after mc in September and my next period came 30days later in October. Since October I’ve been having 50-58 day cycles and haven’t been ovulating and wasn’t checking ovulation in September in October so idk if I was even ovulating then. So for the past 3- 58day cycles I haven’t been ovulating the other two idk about because I wasn’t testing with opk test. When should I go back to the doctor? When will he actually help me. I don’t want to go in for him to do absolutely nothing and just give me a pep talk and to just have me wait it out until July. I’ve asked this question on here before but didn’t get much advice or votes so thought I’d try again. Thanks for all help! 🤗 If I do go what would doctor test for or do if anyone has experience please share. 😊 (I’m trying vitex an premama now An nothing has happened and I’m on cd 20).