prude?

since when does me having respect for my body and wants for my brady make me a prude. my friends are small minded about sex and at 16/17/18 years old they all believe that sex is the best part of a relationship and that nobody is going to wait for marriage. *{edited} all but one of my friends have done oral, penetration and every other kind of sex and i don’t care that they have all done what they have but me thinking waiting till marriage is me calling them sluts. but me personally i believe that sex for me is not right until after i’m married (i don’t care if my husband is a virgin or not a virgin) and somehow that makes me a prude?! and the definition of prude varies completely from the Webster dictionary and i’m wrong for believing the actual dictionary and not urbane dictionary. but does not wanting to have sex until after i’m married make me a prude? does not having kissed someone at 17 make me a prude? please help!

so since me waiting till marriage is me are there college boys (because i’m going to college next year) that will respect my wishes or do all of them just want hook up and that’s it. because if so i might as well being the process of foster or adoption because i’m going to be the 40 year old virgin. i need not small minded people help!!