Idk why this is

When I masturbate I can only get off doing clitoral masturbation. But when someone else touches my clit, it feels uncomfortable and annoying rather than pleasurable and I don't want oral sex or for them to touch it cuz it's super sensitive. It doesn't hurt but it feels bad even if they are gentle. Like only my touch is just right, ya know what I mean ? But I don't get off from penetration either . So basically I don't orgasm during sex only bymyself and I don't want that to be my reality. And sex feels great i just don't climax from anything