Baby shower question

Question for those of you planning to have a baby shower....are you inviting women only or men and women? Last time we only invited the women in my immediate family (which is still 30-40 people). This time we’re having it at a bigger location and inviting more people. It will be very informal....I hate being in the spotlight, and I’m not into all the games and decorations. It’s more of a celebration/get together.

Anyways, I’m thinking I’ll just invite everyone this time. I know that’s not traditional, and I don’t want the guys there to feel out of place. But my thought is if they’ll feel weird about it, then they don’t have to come? I know it’s ultimately my choice, but anybody have any thoughts on this?