What is happening?? IB? AF?

Kaitlyn • Mom to one 👦🏼 and three 🐶

Seriously, I just finished spotting for 5-6 days (started late afternoon), it never got heavy and barely required a liner. It was dark brown, watery, with tinges of rusty red on day 2-3 in the afternoon. It was 2 days late for AF. I know when my LH surge was, when I BD, and my bf has bionic sperm we learned from testing years ago. My pms symptoms hit hard, enlarged breasts, moodiness, frequent urination, cramping, sweet craving, all which usually dissipate the day I start AF. Did not happen this time...

Spotting stopped yesterday, but the longer it went on, the weirder my symptoms got. My lower back hurts with my usual movements, I’ve developed acne between spots on my face and around the back of my neck, I can eat and still be insatiably hungry (right now, after dinner and ice cream, for instance), I’ve had to take several naps this week and still go to bed early, boobs are twinging, I’m yelling at things for no reason, my left boob started leaking colostrum today (I have a 7yr old), my cervix is high and soft and has been throughout spotting,

I go between my feet being frigid during the day but waking up two-three times sweating at night.

I keep trying to do forum research because I feel like it’s a late implant bleed but it’s so late, that sounds crazy. I have strict 28 day, bright red heavy flows, with clockwork cm, ovulation, and pms cycles. But I also keep reading that it could be another week before I see a bfp if it’s not just me. Thoughts? Experiences? Opinions? I have no desire to see a doctor/nurse without a bfp (the local ones are bitchy here if you go in for unusual reasons). It should go without saying that I’ve been testing with multiple brands since 10dpo until today with nothing but bfn/vvvvvfl sporadically.