“It would help if you lost weight..” 🙄😖

Anyone else hear this phrase a lot?? I pisses me off so much. I am 22 yrs old, 5’2 and weight about 215. My husband and I have been trying for about 7 months, nothing yet. Was on BC for about 4 years. I had regular periods before the pill and now that I’m off the pill I’ve only had like 2 normal periods ever since. I’ve either not had any or they’ve been super late.

Went to the Dr. in Sept because I had went 3 months without one, thought I was pregnant but was getting negatives. Even did blood work and everything was normal, not pregnant and tested for PCOS and I don’t have that either. All my Dr could tell me was that I need to lose weight. Just frustrates me because I’ve seen heavier people than myself that are fertile myrtles. 😢

So I am trying my best to eat healthier. I’ve been working out almost daily and taking prenatal vitamins. So far I’ve lost 5 lbs. Crossing my fingers 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼