Can’t take this anymore!!!

So...me and my boyfriend just recently got pregnant and I’m about 6 weeks! We decided to tell our family only for the moment because my boyfriends family would’ve figured out anyway. Ever since we told them it’s is NON STOP with the dumbass questions like am I️ drinking and smoking? Like I’m some kind of idiot that doesn’t know that that isn’t okay! Not only have I️ been asked this everyday of my pregnancy by literally everyone In mine and his family they begin to think it’s this huge priority to go ahead to the court house and get married when they know damn good and well I️ want my “perfect” wedding. His family continues to stress me out about everything. I️ was even told that just because I️ was carrying this baby that I️ don’t just get him/her all to myself.... UMMMMM!!!! Please tell me there is someone out there that gets this same bullshit from other people. I️ can’t take it anymore. They have completely ruined the excitement of my pregnancy! This should be a happy time not a time that I️ have to be pissed about everything that comes out of their mouths!!!! Not to mention my hormones are acting all sorts of crazy!!!! Advice please