Cold treatment
So every time my bf fingers me, he automatically sniffs them in front of my face and makes a comment. I’m usually a strong girl, and don’t let words break me, but this time I was in soft tears and he could see my pain. I explained to him that it’s hurtful when he says there’s a bad odor like there’s something wrong with me when there’s not. I’ve been to the doctor and they did a urine analysis and said everything is fine. I change my underwear everyday, no STDs. However, being middle eastern, I tend to have a lot more hair and sweat more often then the norm. Diet wise, I exercise BUT have the biggest sweet tooth so sugar def plays a role. I know my smell is normal cuz I’ve had this odor he’s been smelling ever since I was young. I’m immune to it. But my smell isn’t what my bf is used to (his past experiences had no smell) which is fine but I can tell it’s a downfall for him. And his reaction/approach to the situation makes me sad. I never ask him to eat me out cuz I don’t like the feeling. 9/10 times I will give him head happily without him asking for it. 1 or 2/10 times he’ll finger me—that’s with me asking for it. He apologized after I told him how I felt, however for the past 2 days he’s been short with me in text and kinda cold/distant. Thoughts?
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