Wifey duties

So I have a full time job, I am going back to school to get my masters, as well as being pregnant with non stop throwing up. I am exhausted and barley make it through the day. I make dinner every night, but do not do dishes every night. I clean the house most weekends but not on the week days. My husband is upset because he grew up in a house with a stay at home mom who had the time to keep a perfect house and cater to everyone’s needs. I am just frustrated that he thinks I need to do all of this, yes he does help out but I just don’t know how to make him understand that I’m not his mom. I do not have enough time in a day nor the energy to keep a spotless house. I am also worried that he will think that I need to do all of what I am already doing plus being a mom with a spotless house!