Intimina Lily Cup

Has anyone else ever used this cup? I could use some help 😬

I originally had the diva cup but I thought it was too firm for me, it was constant against my bladder and when it popped open it hurt and if I had to remove it more often (on my heavy days) it would cause me to get sore.

I did some research and decided this might be a good fit for me but I can’t seem to be able to tell when it’s open, or if it opens at all. Any tips would be great! I hope this one isn’t too soft, I don’t want to have to get a new cup 😩