Ex’s Pt.2 🌹

Hey gals, it was so cute and I was actually surprised people read that whole thing lol. So I’ll post this pt.2 and give the people what they want haha! In this part I’ll try to explain more why I started this thread so I can hopefully start a conversation rather than me just sharing my side. (If you haven’t read the previous story I think it’ll be in my community profile.)

So the day came, where the person who I gave my all to decided he didn’t want to be in my life anymore. My first sexual partner, my first deep connection with someone and my first love. My mum would tell me, “baby, I know you love him but unfortunately you’re only young, he’s going to break your heart.” I never listened, I was very naive. But when the day finally came, I felt like her words prepared me. It hurt me, but let me tell you the healing process is such a beautiful experience. The time you have to learn how to be yourself again is something I would never want to miss out on. You really have to go through a heart break like this once in your life, otherwise you’ll never learn to realise your own strength and power. Never think that a break up is the end of your happiness. Because you are in control of your own happiness. Whatever it may be that brings joy and fulfilment into your life, keep it around you. Your family that makes you feel empowered keep them around you, your friends that uplift you keep them around you. It can never be too much. Eventually, you’ll come out of your room. Eventually, you’ll be interested in other guys —or girls. Trust me, OK, lol.

He broke up with me at the front of my house at the gate, he said “I don’t want to be with you because I want to do things on my own.” — I said “fine? Do whatever it is you want by yourself and so will I.” But then I ran into my room and started crying lol. Two weeks later he was in another relationship with a girl who I met once before. That made me mad. Especially because around the time we broke up I had missed my period and we had already discussed that there may be a chance I was pregnant. This is where it gets a bit crazy. I was 16, I finished high school with 17 year olds (that’s the age of seniors in Australia). I was working at Kmart, I was about to start university in a diploma of Business and Commerce. I was heading towards the direction that could either make or break me. But instead ya girl was worrying about her ex and his new bih—I mean girl. What’s also funny omg I’m cracking myself up just remembering this story. Is that my house and his house we’re on the same street. Literally 10 houses down is where he lived. So, I was coming back from the movies where I took my PT in the toilets while everyone else was watching the movie. And....it came up with one line and one faint line. My dumb ass, thought it was negative. But then I showed my friends and they were like no this is positive. So here I am saying nah I’m okay ya’ll...no sis lmao. So, I’m getting mad texts from my ex like “did you take the test yet” “did you go to the doctor” “what are you doing”. I didn’t reply to any of them and on the way home — fasten your seatbelts bih because this is a mouthful. As my friend was driving I was in the passenger seat, I turn my head to see who’s at his house and low and behold his new gf’s car is the driveway. So I turn to my friend and say “that’s blah blah’s car”. And she like “oh hell no girl let’s go there and Maury Povich his ass. You are the father!” Omg please don’t judge us we were so hype lmao. So here I am hella lit ready to walk my 16 year old ass down to his house not even his house his older sisters house. Walk up the stairs to the front door. Banging on it and shit. And then his sister opens the door and I shit myself she’s this big Tongan intimidating as but she’s beautiful I love her. Anyway shes like “hey tee” all nice and whatever and I’m like “hey is (let’s call him Mr. X) here?” As she moves to get him I see the next one already staring at me looking shocked like I’m tryna come over and beat her up or something lmao. He comes to the door “so did you do it” — “yea I did” I said. He’s like “so what is it tell me hurry up”. And idk why but I got so scared and nervous like I almost lost my voice so I turn to my friend like she supposed to be the one to answer. Put her on the spot omg lol. She’s like “yeah she is” and then I was like whoop there it is in my head. And he like looks like he’s about to cry. I’m over here like thinking I got his ass...but no the drama didn’t end there sis. Because who gonna defend him if he can’t. THE SISTER. Okurrrrr! That’s for a part 3 I think!

Keep commenting, reading and up voting to know what happened after this. Trust me it gets deeper than just these petty stories. I just have to tell them before I get to the main purpose. My life is actually so funny.

Keep it real though, Tyler.