Just here to vent!!!!***

So im 20 years old and my sister is 38, She has a husband(employed but really struggling at the moment )and a 12 month old son and they are being evicted she is also unemployed she just quit BEFORE she had her son(says she cannot leave her son with anyone else but her) but never seems unemployed tho since she always does her hair,buys take out,and she and her hubby just every month "forget to pay rent 😂" Im like 7-8 months married and expecting my first baby due in the next month my husband and I decided that I stay home until baby is born and then start my career! so that is done and dusted as we only want one baby.

for now I make money on the side doing my own thing! so it's not like my husband is taking all the pressure!

here's the thing my older sister always ask for some cash I give her,She ask me for some of my groceries of cause I give her,i bought her son(my lovely nephew) clothes and toys etc worth $800 or more and never asked back also payed her rent to give them a month's mercy and never asked back!...list goes on ya'll ! she thinks my husband is giving her and her hubby🙈 because I said I'm going to ask him,little does she know that my husband said no why can't they take care of themselves! (I gave money to them behind his back😬) She would do the same for me! isn't it?

In the week I recently asked her if the clothes I bought my nephew are now ofcause to small and that I adored a few items I bought him I think it would look cute on my son and definitely will save us a few bucks on baby things since we are trying to save a little and she goes "Oh nah you can take a T-shirt and a Jean but I'm giving the rest of the baby clothes to john's(her Husband) collegues child because they are in need" but if you want,you can buy it back! BITCH WHAT!??

She then reminds me of the $50 I loaned from her last year and still haven't paid her back!

I literally let that slide!!!!

I visit her on a daily so...

Next day!! we get into an argument right, one thing leads to another where we on another topic she tells me I should allow my husband to do "whatever" he wants with his money I am so controlling towards him and that I have never worked or had a serious job a day in my life(Mind you,i was busy finishing my studies and worked partime) she's calling me unemployed! telling me I'm not experienced in anything and do not know how to be a wife to my husband and that I never want to be wrong! reminding me of how she did so much for me (she did jack shit) I took all this in 😞

I'm so soft or hormonal but I'm angry asf cause I need to tell her this fuck lot I Always do for her never expecting anything jn return because I love her so much and I'm frustrated because she's bring a hypocrite i start crying

I can't get any words out I'm shocked so I'm quiet, she calms herself down with a cigarette comes back make as if she had said nothing(argument over because she made her point,in her head) ask me a question I cannot answer,she says why don't you just go home if you going to be moody

You guys I left her apartment, I feel so done...so hurt💔 and so angry😣