Okay so for years my family has walked on egg shells with my aunt Everyone in my family has! Just to keep peace in our family, She’s nearly chocked her daughter to death beat her kids like she’s fighting some girl that looked at her the wrong way and hit her husband hasn’t been faithful to him and she has the right to tell me what to name my child she got butt hurt over me giving my child Graham’s last name because she doesn’t like him? Excuse me darling but I’m nothing compared to you I don’t think you should be giving anyone raising children advice. Your almost 22 year old still lives with you your almost 21 year old is still living with you and your almost 17 year old acts like he has no manners and you control their lives to the point to where there’s no room for mistakes and that’s the whole part of growing up! You didn’t make your ex grow up you just lived with it and felt with him you make your husband feel like he’s entitled to make you feel better for something that’s your fault. Then you have me, I built Graham up I stayed by his side when the world of his went crashing down. We came back up together and we started from the bottom with no money and hardly getting by. We worked very hard for everything we have and that’s appreciated you sat on your butt and had everyone work so you didn’t have to. So yes I feel you have no right to bitch and moan about the last name I give MY child even though I’m not married 👍🏼