First time (soon to be) Dad needs advice.

So I’m in my early 20’s and gonna be a Dad for the first time ever towards the end of this year, oh and did I mention that we’re having twins?

I’m excited and nervous to be a Dad but I can’t stop worrying, even when my fiancé (This her 3rd pregnancy) assures me that everything is fine.

The main issue I struggle with handling and constantly worry about is that I don’t know how to handle situations where my options are to:

1) Give my fiancé whatever she wants so that she’s happy and not moaning, groaning, nagging, or b**ching, etc.

Or

2) Try and get her and her self-proclaimed unbreakable stubbornness to see the logic and reasoning behind my decisions to tell her “No” when she says she’s craving something that she can’t have because she’s pregnant.*

(* Side note about 2, she has already told me multiple times that if I refuse to get her what she wants then she’ll do anything and everything for whoever she has to in order to get what she wants, with complete disregard as to how it might affect the babies and little to no care at all how it makes me feel.)

HELP ME PLEASE!