Venting sesh.

Is wanting to be taken care of too much to ask for? I mean when he has the sniffles, it shuts him down, and will claim he can’t do anything! So I take care of him and cater to his needs. But when I have the flu ( I still get up and do dishes and laundry etc.) he gets mad at me when I lay down for an hour or two, and still asks me to do dinner and gets frustrated when I ask him if he can cook that night. I just want to be taken care of for once in my life 🤧🤒