young sex

okay so i’m 14 and dating a guy i trust a lot he doesn’t pressure me into anything he asked me if i wanted to and i was ready to do it with him so we did then we started fucking more and more, i’m a very mature person for my age so i understand what i’m doing and i understand the risks to it but i’m also starting birth control on my next period but aside from all that i’ve been reading a lot on how young is too young for sex and 14 is really young to a lot of people but should i still feel bad about it even though i understand what i’m doing and i know i trust the person?

so most of the people commenting are saying i’m the one who thinks i’m mature for my age but that’s really not what’s going on my family has told me this people i just met have told me this, i am being very safe about this situation. i didn’t post this so i could be judged i just wanted opinions so if you’re just coming to say i’m a cocky little kid don’t bother commenting.

my opinion on this:

the world expects 14 year olds to pick their future at this age yet making a choice about their body and what they choose to happen to it is not allowed

i understand the people saying i’m young because of the chance of getting pregnant but if i’m safe about it and feel i’m okay about making a decision to have sex i had sex before my current boyfriend came along and i’m comfortable with the decisions i have made and are making i am not scared to tell my mom about having sex i know what i am doing so if that gives you alittle more information about who i am as a person i hope you can understand where i am coming from instead of just saying no you’re to young it doesn’t matter if you think it’s and okay choice. Try to look at it from a different perspective. ps i’m not a religious person so i don’t see it as a big deal i just wanted to see why others find it such a bad choice