I feel like my mom is so judgmental. I know it’s coming from a protection standpoint. Sometimes I wish I can just tell her stuff but I when it comes down to it I can’t bc I feel like she’s going to judge. Like I tell her about this new guy I’ve been talking to for 3 months and I feel like any little thing she hears is like nope 👎🏾 nope 👎🏾 nope 👎🏾. For example, I live in AL and me and him going on a trip to ATL for his football tryouts (leave and come back the same day). She asked me why doesn’t he just drive himself and I said he doesn’t have a car. After i said that, her face was just so judgmental. She asked me why and didn’t tell her the whole truth, just the surface. The reasoning behind him not having a car is very logical and I respect him for it. I didn’t tell her the reason b/c I think she’s going to judge him ever harder. The thing is....my brother who’s 30 didn’t get his own car until last year. I just think there are a lot of members in my family who do f***** up s*** so really none of us should be judging anyone. I hide stuff from her that I really want to talk to her about but I don’t and feel like I can’t because I don’t want her to judge.