Non stop getting criticized

My family and his family.

He has two kids from a previous relationship, dated people with kids then met me. We had a baby after some time of dating. Why is it an issue that he has three kids? “Woah He’s moving fast” is that a comment you really should be making to your brother on his sons first birthday? Like it shouldn’t matter how many kids we have.

My parents weren’t happy at all when they found out i was pregnant but my family never made comments.

Currently 16 weeks. We don’t want to tell anyone because we don’t want to hear what they have to say. We should be happy we’re finally finish our family. But were not at all.

Why is it the ones we trust the most hurt us more and judge us?