Frustrated with husband about the testing process...should I be?

Does anyone else feel frustrated with their husband because you have to do so much more to get pregnant? I had my blood tests (had HUGE anxiety over the results), had my HSG today (which was HIGHLY anxiety ridden, surgery center, very painful, etc). I just don't think that he gets it. He has not done his sperm analysis yet and he makes it seem like it's so embarrassing. He's going to do it, but I just feel so alone in all of this because he doesn't get it.