OK so me and my 3rd child's father have been an unofficial couple for 6 years. our child is 4 years old. well this year he decided to step out the single world, and get a girlfriend. only issue, im not even a candidate! 6 years of sex, still currently having sex, claims he wants to be with me but he doesnt from what I see, and another big deal. his girlfriend is pregnant. im suddenly the side female and its really eating away at me. I was TTC a girl before the news. now I really want a baby girl but now I dont know what I want.