Uncle totally lashed out

Little back story. My uncles are adopted by another family, after 20 years we reunited in 2014. So we don't really know much about each other. Btw their twins. One lives in the city with us and the other lives out of town about 4 hours away.

Well the one that lives out of town (Raymond) got super drunk last night.

I went in the garage to smoke weed before going to bed.. He came in and smoked a cigg. He than started jumping down my throat talking shit about me staying with my aunt (his sister). Saying I need to get my shit together and what not.

I was definitely blind sided with this conversation. We hardly know each other, how does he possibly think he can put his two senses in my life. Talking mad shit for who knows what, getting in my face shrugging me with his upper body. At this point I'm starting to get pissed. I was trying to keep it cool cause I knew it was just the alcohol.

He than starts talking shit about my husband. Which I figured would happen. Starts telling me, he's using me for my (points to my ass and vag) CONSTANTLY.

At this point I'm feeling uncomfortable and I'm getting aggravated. So I go off!

My auntie and her boys come in and intervene this heated argument.

& What does he do, acts like he didn't say shit. As if anything that came out his mouth wasnt pure negativity. Trying to say he's just looking out for my best interest..

At this point I'm just so mad, I ended up going off on my husband. Now I feel like I'm in the wrong because I allowed whatever their pointless ass drama was with each other get the best of me!

Now I'm dreading even being around my family because my uncle had the nerve to disrespect me, talking shit and put me down for NO reason.