So I’m 22 years old. I have been home my entire life. I recently told asked my mom about moving out but I addressed the situation with multiple people in my family but saved it for my mom last because i know how she is. Within a month I am going to be moving in with my boyfriend and best friend. Boyfriend and best friend are cousin let’s start off saying that before I get comments of a stupid decision. So I typically keep my love life separate from my house hold family but my god mom is very involved. My both my brothers kept there wives around and the relationship between my mom and brothers are less. So far my dad is very supportive of me moving out even though he doesn’t approve, but my mom is a total different story. At this point she is no longer speaking to me and now is basically telling my god mom that she is waiting on me to fall straight on my face and does not plan on helping me if I struggle. She bad mouths my boyfriend who she hardly knows saying that he is basically using me. She is also bad mouthing my best friend, because she doesn’t have that good of a job. Best friend and boy friend are about to get second jobs even though all of us combined is well over enough to pay bills. Boyfriend has literally given me his debit card and is trying to take care of me even though I don’t want him too. He also on multiple occasions took me and my best friend out to eat and bout food for my god moms house hold when we wanted food late at night. She says that he basically isn’t good because he doesn’t have a career job(he works in a factory doing overtime all the time) Reminder that my boyfriend and best friend both make more money than me. They have already told me if I start struggle in my college work financially that they will handle the bills until I get back on track. And a lot of other things. Up until this point not even my best friend of 8 years has seen this side of my mom which I have now been dealing with for 2weeks non stop and she can’t believe it herself. Both my boyfriend’s family and god mom have said they will help us anyway they can if we need it. Mom was planning on going back to school when I graduate but my dad and I have both told her to go now and we would take care of the bills way before I decided I was going to move out. My mom basically wants me to wait another 5years. My dad is more accepting because he said he wishes that I would have went away for college to get that experience of being away. I stayed home because it was cheaper and I help out with my lil cousin that we have custody. I will only be moving 20minutes away and still help with my cousin. I told my mom that once I graduate I will still be able to help out with he bills because with my major I would have enough money. Any advice on how to handle the situation. She is doubting and making the choice to not give me any support. I honestly don’t know what to do at this point. I do understand where she comes from but at the same time I feel like she is over reacting and I don’t know what to do.