Should I make the chop? 😬

So, I’ve pretty much always had long hair. I only cut it short once in my life while I was in high school and I hated it. People always told me it made me look older and I remember thinking “I don’t want to look like a mom.” 😂 However, now I’m 23 and mommy to a 2 year old and that doesn’t sound like an insult to me like it did when I was 16 (lol.) Anyway, I ALWAYS wear my hair in a bun and I’m sick of it but I just don’t have the time/ patience to tame my long hair everyday. So, I’ve been thinking to get a sexy new look that may be easier to maintain. What do you ladies think 🤔 The first three pics are me now. I don’t have any photos really showing how long my hair is but it goes down past my boobs. and The last three photos is what I’d like to get. Please help!!! I’m so indecisive 😩