Step mothers

Would you call and check on your stepchild everyday? When they are with their mother or mother in law? My fiancé seems to think he doesn’t have to give (our) child much attention because I don’t check on my stepdaughter every single day when she’s with his mom or her bio mother. I don’t think I need to call anyone else to ask how my stepdaughter is doing if he’s talked to her already and We have her Thursday-Sunday. She has her own mother and I am her “extra” mom.