You have been clear since your kids were born that they would never been spoiled or lazy, yet you have handed them everything their whole lives and blown a college tuition worth of money on them on just junk alone. I mean, I don't know of one other kid I've met in my life who gets to buy 183 dollar eyeliner FOR HER FRIENDS birthday.

If you think that's bad, Idk of another 13 year old who gets gifts on her friends birthdays so she doesnt get left out!! I can see doing something like that to shut up a screaming toddler if you're at wits end...but 13 years?

and your oldest doesn't get spoiled like that so you play favorites too? What 13 year old is so demanding and clingy that you hate being around her because she's ruining your life instead of doing teenager stuff? You're miserable! Tell her no once in a while! Stop babying her!. Everyone is worried about you and hates that kid! No one whats to watch her because she is awful and you wont let us punish her. She's healthy and of sound mind, yet has the temperament of a rude, clingy spoiled two year old in the"mine phase".