Don’t feel connected to baby inside

I’m 16weeks with my first baby and feeling strangely disconnected from it. We struggled for a long time to get pregnant and ended up needing

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>, so I assumed I would fall in love with this baby immediately but I’m just not yet. I’ve had the easiest pregnancy ever so far too, and just starting to get a bump- but when I first noticed it I felt more grossed out than anything. More than anything I’m feeling like I’m not even pregnant, just fat and with a million new things to do/buy/prepare. Anyone else in the same boat? I’m

Hoping once I feel the kicks or know the sex I’ll be able to connect more.