Boyfriend is being ridiculous ..

He graduated high school in 2016 and he is 20 years old, 21 this December. Still lives with his parents in their basement, complains about not having his life together CONSTANTLY. (That’s a key fact here)

He just got a job to be a security officer 3rd shift, only paying $11.50/hr, roughly 19k yearly. He has an offer for a lawn care company paying $15/hr, roughly 32.4k yearly. Obviously you’d pick the job that requires more labor for almost double than what you’d get for doing something you don’t want to do right? Right.

Well he doesn’t want to do the labor work because he thinks he will get “too tired” aka feeling tired because all he does is lay around and play video games. Obviously if he would actually get up and do something he wouldn’t get so tired... right? Right.

Honestly I’m getting really sick of him being like this. He complains about how he doesn’t like staying with his parents but then he doesn’t do shit about it. Am I wrong for wanting the BETTER OPTION FOR HIM? The higher paying job! So he’s not struggling when he gets an apartment and can actually provide for himself? 😒