Husband is so selfish.

I have to rant. I am getting so tired of my husband. I clean the house at least once a week so well and just ask him to clean up after himself. I wake up EVERYDAY to a mess in the kitchen and dishes and food in the living room which leaves me to clean it up because he will literally leave it there for a week. I recently found out I’m pregnant and he has made no effort to researching about the baby or even being a father. He argues with me everyday over stupid stuff which most of the time he starts because he has an attitude with me everyday. Today we came home from a night out with friends and he wanted to shower first, okay cool. I went into the bathroom to brush my teeth and take my contacts out, which I told him I was doing before that and I told him I would shower in the other bathroom. He literally turned our water heater off because he didn’t want me to shower. WTF I AM SO PISSED. I told him he’s being selfish and once again he blames ME and says it’s MY fault. I’m SO past the point of being frustrated and I really just want to call it quits sometimes. He NEVER shows me love or is nice to me. If I ask him to do one thing like feed the dog or take the dog out, he flips out and says he wishes the dog would get run over by a car and die. If I ask him to clean up after himself or make the bed he pretends like he can’t hear me or he will never do it. He is so disrespectful and I feel so unloved. I just don’t know what to do 😭