My Family talk shit about him and smile in his face..

Guys have you ever seen the question on Facebook stating “ Should a husband defend his wife against insults from the family?”

Well I’m kinda trying to figure out what to do about my family. They all have talk shit about my SO because we have had such a rough 3 years together..with keeping jobs and borrowing money... We started dating at 18 so we kinda started maturing together.. we are now 21 and and we’ve finally gotten on our feet and we just found out we are welcoming baby#2 in November.

I love my family to death ! They have always been there for me. But they call my SO weird and have said all kinds of negative insults about him. I don’t like it and I kinda smile and shrugged it off but now looking back I feel like I should of said something... this is the man that i plan on growing old with. He is going to be in my life for the rest of my life... and I feel like they should all get use to it.

Like yesterday I was visiting my grandmother (she is the main person that talks about him)

She is always asking when am I just going to leave him.. and yesterday I was talking about I let my cousin move in because she has no place to go and my SO and I wanted to help get her on her feet. My grandmother kept trying to put it in my mind that “ my SO and my cousin were sleeping together while I was over here” I kinda laughed because I know my SO isn’t that person and none of my family know I’m pregnant and I don’t know if I will tell them at all...

What would you do ?