Bad mom already??

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Am I already a bad mom if I was lazy throughout my whole pregnancy I barley walked or ate healthy I’d forget my vitamins for days at a time and I stopped attending school. Am I a bad mom for being lazy?:/

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If this is kind of a reflection of your habits in general eg you tend to do only what's comfortable for you and not what needs to be done, I'll be honest, the potential for being a bad mom is there. But if after the baby comes you'll be stepping up to change diapers adequately, feed promptly, be up in the night, bathe baby, love on your baby etc then you'll be a great mom. These things may sound obvious, but some moms (and dads too!) just don't, they stay lazy even after baby arrives,  and yes I think they're not being good parents. But that doesn't mean that's what you're going to do.

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Pregnancy takes A LOT out of you. I’ll admit I didn’t eat the healthiest and I was pretty lazy. But my boyfriend knew I was growing a human and all he wanted was for me to be my most comfortable, even if that meant being lazy

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You’re not a bad mom some ppl just handle pregnancy different it takes a lot out of you.. as long as you do what you need to do for you and you’re baby after she’s born then you will be a good mom.. no ones perfect..

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I cry about being lazy to my boyfriend because I don’t want HIM to think I’m a lazy slob... he asked well how do you feel about it?? Intold him I’m having a damn blast lol. Now on days when I’m EXTRA LAZY he’ll be like ‘it’s okay, have a blast.’ Lol

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For being lazy? Ya it’s pretty selfish. Although pregnancy does take its toll on you and if there’s actual reasons that you were lacking some days, then that’s different. I’d say you’ve created some and habits though and might be in for a shock when you have the baby. You’re really only making things harder on yourself by not attending school (seriously wtf? Easier to do now before baby is here, trust me I’ve been there!) and walking frequently helps with labor, delivery, and recovery. Vitamins are super important, but I’ve been too sick to take mine, so like I said there can be reasons and justifications.

Bad mom already??

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