Sex is making me nervous

Hailey • 21 • Amaria Rae born on 6/6/2018 • Type 1 Diabetic

I’ll be 28 weeks on Friday and lately everytime me and my boyfriend have sex it starts hurting like feeling like he’s tearing me even though he’s not because theres no blood then when I go to the bathroom after wards, there’s white globs that look like rolled up toilet paper that’s wet that come out. After that though they don’t happen again until we have sex and I’ll be a little sore but nothing too bad. Is this normal the farther along you get in pregnancy or should I be concerned?