A clean house? Yeah right...🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️

How do y’all keep a clean house? I maybe clean 3times in a day and it somehow is destroyed by the time my husband gets home my daughter just loves dragging everything out and I try to pick up after myself and put things back when I’m done with it, but it’s like I set something down and then something comes up and I’m just like “oh I’ll get that after I’m done handling this” and then I just forget about it! I have 2 kids 14 months apart so it’s like once I’m done feeding one the other meeds to be fed or once I’m done with one diaper the other needs a change! I’m so behind on laundry and my bedroom, my husband helps as much as he cans but he works 5am-3:30pm and gets home at 4-5 depending on traffic. I just want to be clean but when I actually have time to do anything the days already over. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I feel so bad for not having a spotless house like his moms and she has 2 kids as well (she had 2 more kids in her 40s) and they’re 3-5years old but even then her house always seems to be super neat! My husband says it doesn’t bother him as long as the kids are taken care of and it’s not disgustingly bad where it starts to smell and what not, but for some reason it bugs the hell outta me. I even try picking up before he comes home, but then toys get dragged out all over again! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️😩😩