Opinions Please 😩

I’m trying to get pregnant and my husband and I have already talked about names. (how can you not it’s so exciting) My husband has a daughter from a previous marriage. she has his last name and so will our child I just think it’s cute to make their initials match or have similar middle names. Our daughters middle name is Eloise and I was considering Elise for a middle if we have a girl. His Ex wife and I have a very bad relationship and I don’t want her to think I’m copying her (even though my husband named his daughter) I also don’t want his family or mine to think I’m just trying to steal their child’s name or “thunder” I’m kinda torn. My husband doesn’t seem to mind as he wants the kids to have a very strong bond even if they may not see each other as often as most siblings.