why is tht

Why are most guys against girls having dildos or vibrators . I haven’t had a orgasm yet dealing with my partner although regardless the sex is great. he is my first so ofc I’m willing to try everything with him. I wanted to get a vibrator to help I told him tht he can use it on me but he’s like wtf what u need that for😭 so idk ? I just wanna feel the feeling ...