How old were u when you started to remove ur upper lip peach fuzz ( if u had it )

I’m a darker skin tone which means for me my hair is darker and my body hair is noticeable.

Like my upper lip, my friend uses face cream to remove hers but I’m scared to, bc i would be removing it like 2 times a week and thats doing to much,

I don’t have the option for waxing and shit so I usually pluck it but I stop because it hurts.

Ik ppl notice it bc it’s always that one person to say something but idk what to do and I hate it. My mom tells me to leave it alone bc it’s fine BUT ITS NOT like I have a freaking mustache that’s not cute ( to me. )

I thought about bleaching it but then again I’m a darker skin tone so idk.

Help? And what do u do to remove it and how many days do u have to do it again, lastly do it grow back thicker or thinner ?