What should I do?

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Me and my ex fiancé broke up a few months ago and this morning he texted me on instagram since I blocked him on everything else.

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still trying to advocate for what he did by blaming zach .. he needs to grow up

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Now before I say anything i would have to know like if it’s his first time cheating on you through your years together. Did you find out about it on your own or did he tell you about it because he was ashamed of what he done? I’m not gonna say just drop him cus he cheated but if it was multiple times then yeah go ahead. But if it was the first time and you guys had a sit down and talked about how he hurt you and so on then yeah you can work on it together. I mean he does sound a little insecure when it comes to the fact that he feels you prefer your friend over him and in some way I can say he probably thought that being that the kids are around the other guy that they would rather be with the friend than him.🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not making excuses for him but I think you should think about everything if it’s a multiple time problem then yeah leave and forget him unless it involves your kiddos. If not try and see if you can work things out your not giving him a definite answer on y’all being 100% together again but your trying so if it doesn’t work you can say at least you tried. Make him work for your trust again!!

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Seems like a drama queen. Using “ I just... “ like we’re not in a movie. I’d be blocking him on instagram if you can too. There’s no excuse for fucking someone else and ruining the trust and loyalty built in a relationship. I hope you’re doing okay and have moved on. No one deserves to be cheated on.

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He's not blaming it on Zach. He's trying to explain things that led up to his shit behaviour. He has no excuse, he knows it. He's just trying to communicate with you and let you know what feelings led to him doing what he did. Again inexcusable. If it was his first time you guys could probably work through it. He seems to care.. and you cared enough to speak back and forth and post it here.

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Until he owns up to his mistake without trying to reason with it by blaming this Zach character, he's not worth your time.

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What do you mean “what should I do?”? 
Keep doing what you’re doing and stay broken up. He cheated on you and now he’s trying to justify it lol. Leave it at that.

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