Long distance situationship (long story)

Sorry guys but I need to vent real quick, please share your opinion.

I met a guy on Tinder (first mistake...jk Tinder can be great) and for the first months we thought we were in the same country, but as it turns out he was in San Juan (Puerto Rico) and I was in Dom.Rep where there's a place called San Juan too. He's in PR as a volunteer (because of the hurricane) so I thought oh wow that's a nice guy plus he looked so damn cute (chubby, tall and red beard).

When we realized we were in different countries, he said he was going to visit me after he was done with his job there, he needed a passport for that so he had to go back to NY.

I analize what ppl say and how they act and I didn't noticed anything weird about him except for when he was really stressed and tired (they had to work 7 days a week) he stopped using whatsaap for a day or two and I didn't want to be the crazy woman who got annoying when a guy didn't text her 24/7.

Now guys, moving foward to last week, I noticed he was acting distant and saying he was very tired (always did the same thing before not using his phone for a day or two cause remember that's what he did when he was stressed) so I knew what was coming, or at least I thought I knew. I sent a few memes on Wednesday to make him feel better (got a line or two during that day) on Thursday I said hi and went back almost 5 hours later to tell him "I know you're very busy but saying hi doesn't take a lot of time, I'll text you in a few days" (keep in mind he was acting distant for a couple of days so I was getting mad, plus him leaving all of the sudden took my anxiety levels to extreme points cause no one wants to feel good with a person and have them disappear on you) the next day I told him I needed to talk about something important and today I basically just had my clousure by telling him how surprised I was for the way he was acting.

I really am surprised, a guy who was always sweet to me, he opened up to me about his insecurities (don't feel special when ppl talk about it with you) knowing I could take advantage of them and who seemed to be an overall "good guy" would disregard my feelings after all those months talking. I saw him online, probably reading what I wrote and acted like nothing happened. I never got a response to any of my messages so that's what makes me mad/sad.

Sooo, if you ever see a Jamie (Jay) Jones from Poughkeepsie, RUN! (He might be different but i'm salty so yes, run)