Who to tell about IUI

Pamela

So..after all our test results came back, our doctor recommended going straight to Clomid and <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. We scheduled a “nurse teach” for today to go over everything, but over the weekend I received an email about my insurance approval and it appeared the procedure wouldn’t be covered.

I of course let my mom and sister know right away, as I was upset. Only them and two close friends know we’ve even started fertility testing.

Well today at the appointment, I realized half of the document about my insurance coverage was cut off on my phone, <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> is covered 100%!!!

So as soon as I start my next cycle, GAME ON!

My only problem is..my husband doesn’t want to tell ANYONE. He wants me to tell my mom and my sister that the insurance doesn’t cover it and we are going to wait a few more months and see what happens.

I understand he wants it to be a surprise for them if the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> is successful but I tell my sister EVERYTHING! I don’t know how I’m not going to tell her. And my mom is such a big support! I don’t want to go against what he wants but...gah!! I don’t want to hide this from them. DH keeps saying “oh I know you’ll tell them” and he looks so disappointed so I really don’t want to do that...but...ugh. I don’t know!

Any advice?! I know this was long and ramble but I’m so torn!