This guy I have been seeing for months would never take me to his house. When I asked he would say that he's embarrassed because I was from wealth and he was not. Now, His town is far below the poverty line and that doesn't define him to me. I don't live in wealth. I live at with my parents and we all live minimally. Anyways, we were hanging at my place when he gets a call from a woman and starts acting weird. Come to find out he's married. But he says that he's done with her and she can't accept it and can't afford a divorce. He says that he choked her at really tough moment but it would never happen to me. I don't buy it. I get in contact with her. She blames me for everything and claims that I was trying to break them up, among a lot of other mess. So, I blocked him from all communication. Her too because she kept calling asking where he was and if I was pregnant. I never responded I just blocked them. Now, I am pregnant and I haven't told the guy because the child was not conceived in true love or consent. I feel guilty and dumb for not seeing any of this coming. There were red flags with this guy but I ignored them because I can be paranoid and I wanted to give him the benefit he was telling the truth. Thru all this, I am in a good place. I have my own place with my sister moving soon and I will start my masters this May. I have managed to avoid the man who turned my life upside down and his wife.